Sometimes one of the tiny humans snuggles in my bed. when i say my bed i mean dirty j’s bed. he may be an old grump but at night he transforms into a bed snuggle buddy but strictly on his terms. i found jimmy like this on tiny human 😂🐈
Meowmy had a birthday a couple days ago. as much as she should have bought herself something she thought of us. she always wanted a cat tower but they are so expensive. she found this one on @chewy chewy.com for 36$! it was so affordable and the cats love it.
update on simon: so he is still being crated. i do not need to hear it is cruel. it’s what it best for him right now. he gets a lot of out of crate time. i have to very closely watch him. i threw out two rugs he ruined and so far he has not tried on go on the hardwood in those rooms. there is still one more spot in the house i have to watch so close. hopefully no new ones... he uses the box in his crate to pee. he will only poo in the box outside of the crate. everyday is a new day. i am fully exhausted emotionally and so is my family from him. send me some uplifting thoughts... - jes
Today is day 2 back in the crate training. we let simon out of course for periods to play. he loved that. he sure did howl quite a bit. send us words of encouragement. it’s so easy for those to say just get rid of him... #cats
Day one back to crate training. i don’t need people to say he needs bedding or something because that’s what he pees on. anything fabric. any rug. all rugs. behind fireplaces. what simon needs is no fabric for right now. this breaks my heart as i am sure it breaks yours. of course i will take him out to place. it’s better than behind brought to a shelter. did you know a big reason cats are abused is because they do not use the box? that scares me to think about surrendering him to a shelter because you never know who would take him. please send positive thoughts to us. i am so exhausted mentally. i really needed this crate for my dog, but i am going to keep checking goodwill for a metal large dog crate in the meantime. i hope simon doesn’t howl and keep us up all night.
Well no good news. he just ruined another rug. i only have one metal dog crate and i use that for my dog. i asked around but no one has an extra. i am going to just s**k it up and take the dogs crate that he sleeps in to crate simon and try to crate train him. i don’t even know 😩
Just looking for support... if you have been following us thankyou if not please read previous post. again this is not medical it’s behavioral. i tried keeping simon separated again and only out in the full house when i can watch him. well that didn’t stop him. the area rug i just stepped on it soaked in cat urine. yes soaked. he is fixed. i am so at a loss. i am heat broken. the only way i could find him a home is if a vet were to keep in in an office or animal hospital as the “vet pet” so i know he wouldn’t be abused. animals that go outside the box are very likely to get abused. i can’t even imagine thinking of not having him but at this time i am just at the end of trying. - jess