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@anniekaszina

anniekaszina
There is no scenario in which emotional abuse is not emotional abuse. when you tolerate abuse of any kind, you give the abuser the message that they can keep on doing what they have just done to you. they will. just like they always have. [blog post] http://bit.ly/2yctzxy
#healing #recovery #abusesurvivor #emotionalabuse #mrnasty #narcissist #abusecycle #abuseawareness #abusiverelationships #relationships #narcissisticabuse #manipulation #emotionallyabusiverelationship
1 8 12 hours ago

@wiseassness

wiseassness
#repost @narcknowledge ・・・ from @theblacksheepsurvives - the more i read about it the more in shock i am #repost via @roy.tracy @regrann from @dont_gaslight_me_bruh - the narcissist garners a tremendous amount of fuel from calculated baiting. they particularly love to set their scapegoat up in front of others, but will even do it when it's just the two of you in a room.
they somehow manage to make themselves look like the innocent party, while the victim ends up looking like the overreacting troublemaker causing the issue.
they will bring up something negative about you that perhaps has a grain of truth to make it seem plausible.
the abuser knows exactly which of the victims buttons to press, and may make a comment in reference to a previous abuse incident that only the victim knows about. this understandably triggers a horrific c-ptsd reaction as the target is forced to re-live the unresolved past incident, thus getting re-traumatized. all the while the narcissist feigns innocence whilst inflicting further torture on the scapegoat, plus garnering sadistic pleasure from the meltdown.
sometimes they will even bring up polarizing topics like politics in a group setting such as a family dinner, to make everybody argue with one another. meanwhile they just 'innocently' sit back with the popcorn getting their rocks off on the manufactured chaos unfolding in front of them.
#abusecycle #boundaries #blacksheep #complexptsd #codependency #dysfunctionalfamily #maternalnarcissism #mindgames #emotionalvampires #goldenchild #grayrock #guilttrip #gaslighting #scapegoat #nocontact #narcopath #npd #narcissism #narcissticabuse #narcissisticsupply #psychopath #sociopath #psychologicalabuse #smearcampaign #triangulation #verbalabuse #victimblaming #victimshaming
1 11 21 hours ago

@anniekaszina

anniekaszina
Wouldn’t it be nice if we only had to experience being ill-treated by one man, and we learned from it never to make certain mistakes again? for most of us, the reality is slightly different. we learn that a certain kind of man treated us badly, in a certain kind of way, and we resolve never to make that mistake again. sadly, we don’t think that we could be vulnerable to different, but equally calamitous, mistakes. that is precisely why we repeat them.

read the blog here:
http://recoverfromemotionalabuse.com/2018/04/24/different-kinds-of-bad-relationships/

#emotionalabuse #abuse #abusiverelationship #abusive #toxicrelationships #narcissist #abusecycle #awareness #domesticabuse #naricissisticabuse #victim
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@myexisapsycopath

myexisapsycopath
2 81 2 days ago

@anniekaszina

anniekaszina
My mother’s favorite phrases – when i was doing my best to grow up – included these three gems, “what do you think you are doing?” “what do you think you are wearing?” and “you aren’t going out looking like that!” there were plenty of things she did not want me to wear – because bad things might happen – outside the house – if i did. yet she never paid much attention to the emotional attire i was clad in.

in fact, mother had no idea that emotional attire has a big impact on a person’s quality of life. in this week’s blog, we shall be looking at,

a) your current emotional attire,
b) who chose it for you and
c) how you get to upgrade your emotional wardrobe – and your quality of life.

read the blog here:
http://recoverfromemotionalabuse.com/2018/04/17/what-you-really-dont-want-to-wear/

#emotionalabuse #abuse #abusiverelationship #abusive #toxicrelationships #narcissist #abusecycle #awareness #domesticabuse #naricissisticabuse #victim
0 8 2 days ago