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How do i stay motivated?

a question i got asked a lot after opening a question box last night, and let me be brutally honest with you.

i don’t. in fact in took me taking a 5 month “break” from being “on track” up until the last few weeks or so.

going to the gym 6 days a week & dieting for 3 years is hard. not only on your body but it plays with your head. you’re tested in ways every single minute of every single day, to stay consistent in changing old habits. some habits that have been built over 15 years or more. that is hard.

but what’s also hard is living my life overweight.
it’s hard not being able to move my body in ways that i want.
it’s hard not feeling fuelled by the food i’m eating.
it’s hard having no confidence in myself.
it’s hard feeling like i’m not showing up for myself.

that is how i stay motivated. i remember by why. i understand my intentions behind why i do the things i do. they are for me, and they are for how the rest of my life will play out.

it’s not about finding the right motivational people on social media. it’s not about finding the right quotes that inspire you.
it’s about you. what you want for yourself.

going to the gym and paying attention to your nutrition is a full time job. it’s hard.

but not harder than being unhappy with myself.

so, choose your hard. ✨🌻💛
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Your value should never be impacted by what others think of you ❤️ no matter how hard you try or what you do, there’s still going to be someone who has something nasty to say about it. so you do you boo!
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11/14/2016:: 3 years ago i #married my best friend. happy anniversary b**e 🥑🍍 😘 thank you for loving me so hard #trahma #hotliketucson #effyourbeautystandards
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• look up in a mirror like, "damn, she the one" 🌸

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• gingerbread extra spicy eye shadow palette @toofaced @meccamaxima @meccacosmetica@stilacosmetics stay all day eyeliner
@toofaced born this way foundation • @benefitaustralia hoola bronzer & invisible eyebrow gel
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One shot selfie. i am not feeling gorgeous today.

so just reminding myself that i *am* a megababely babe, as @heyjayyarn tells me, that if i can look at people shaped like me and see beauty the same applies to me and also beauty standards are subjective and enforced to meet the needs of both capitalism and patriarchy

#happyfat #effyourbeautystandards #fuckthepatriarchy #fuckcapitalism #anxietylies
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Okay i needed to do one last #lipsticklook because i have to gush about this lipstick. it’s #redvelvet by @besamecosmetics and i cannot say enough good things about the lipstick itself and #besamecosmetics! not only is all their lipstick long lasting, every colour is so rich with just the right amount of shine and it’s not at all drying, which is a big plus to me! i have two more shades by besame, but i’d have their entire collection if i had the money! they’re my go - to lipsticks, especially the red velvet shade. every time i put them on, i feel like a movie star. #lovebesamecosmetics #❤️❤️❤️ #effyourbeautystandards #fierceandfabulous #bigandbeautiful
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Goooood morning lovelies!! happy thursday!! i am living for this outfit today!! living! this coat is so cosy and perfect for this freezing morning!! everything just works so well together here and i’m just feeling blessed to be able to get up in the morning, throw an outfit together and feel good! after decades of not having such a luxury honestly it’s such an amazing feeling and one i do not take for granted! outfit deets below! have a beautiful day!!
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coat @dresslily @dresslily plussize {gifted}
top @primark
shoes @primark
glasses @specsavers
trousers @pinkcloveuk {gifted}
scarf @marksandspencer .
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#blessed #joy #humbled #plussizefashion #plussize #fashion #fashioninspiration #psootd #ootd #curvefashion #curves #effyourbeautystandards #beautiful #selflove #selfcare #bodyconfidence #shorty #confident #inspired #courageous #autumn #autumnready #sotonbloggers #ukfashion
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Throwback thursday // #copacabanabeach #rio
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Good morning insta❤
auf geht's zum arbeiten❤
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The single most powerful thing i can be is to be myself - the rock #feelingmyself #snapchat #effyourbeautystandards #bbw #plussize
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In this photo i’m styling a lavender coloured lipstick called #ayesha by @katvondbeauty #effyourbeautystandards #fierceandfabulous #bigandbeautiful
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#tcff18 today for #throwbackthursday and no @curvefashionfes trip is complete without a #nickyrockets slash neck tee
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Passion fruity. 🍒🍉💦 products:
eyes: @morphebrushes james charles palette & semi matte liquid liner in the shade blackout @juviasplace the queen palette
lashes: @amazon
brows: @katvondbeauty super brow pomade in the shade graphite @morphebrushes p louise base pro
lips: @morphebrushes lip liner in the shade wine me @kyliecosmetics lip liner in the shade ginger
face: @milkmakeup hydro grip primer @fentybeauty pro filter foundation in the shade 420 & pro filter retouch setting powder in the shade nutmeg @nyxcosmetics matte finish setting spray
glow: @juviasplace the queen palette .
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महान् गणितज्ञ वशिष्ठ नारायण सिंह जी नहीं रहें।उनकी दिवंगत आत्मा को भावपूर्ण विनम्र श्रद्धांजलि 👏💐 #yourquote#poetryporn#poetrybooks #poetrylovers #poetryislife#writersofinstagram #writerscommunity#educating #motivationquotes #fitnessmotivation #motivational #writers #writersociety#yourquote#effyourbeautystandards #literaterp#literaturanacional#writersofinstagram #yourquotebaba#writeaway#writersofinstagram#hindi_poetry#kavita #bookstagramindia#hindithoughts #englishthoughts#motivational_quotes#motivationalspeaker#writingsociety#lovers#reader#success#positivity
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The fabulous lipstick i’m rocking tonight is #golddigger by @aromi_beauty ! #fierceandfabulous #effyourbeautystandards #bigandbeautiful
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Another all black outfit?
i know i know what you are thinking, but come-on, can a girl ever have enough black dresses?
also, i have never had the courage to wear a dress this short, but moving to a new country is making me experiment with anything and everything!
so for this look i have paired a short black jacket dress from @sheinofficial with my 80 denier opaque tights from @ccworldofcurves 💕
put on some pointed black heels and you've got yourself an outfit! ✨
outfit details:
dress @shein_in (size 3x)
search id: 794999 http://bit.ly/2k50tve ;
tights @citychiconline (size 1x)
shoes @stevemadden
bag @charleskeithofficial
glasses @gucci
use my code "famq3" to avail 10% off your entire order 😘😘 #sheinindia #shein #sheinau #sheingals #curvyrevolution #curvesarebeautiful #curvygirl #aussieplussize #aussiecurves #aussiesofinstagram #aussieinfluencer #melbournefashionblogger #ccworldofcurves #citychiconline #charlesandkeith #guccigang #stevemaddenshoes #allblackoutfit #fatgirlfashion #whatfatgirlsactuallywear #effyourbeautystandards #plussize #plussizefashion #curvyfashion
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It's the most wonderful time of the year 🎄
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christmas gift section now live on the website.
take a look at our unique gifts, jewellery and beauty accessories.
all come gift wrapped and include delivery 🤗🎅
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have a wonderful thursday
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I’m so happy at my new job! #pastel #b**e #plussize #effyourbeautystandards
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