There comes a point where you need to find balance in your life. don't get me wrong always work hard but don't let work take over your life that you have no life otherwise you will lose yourself. when you love or fall in love fall for the right reasons and the right person. not because your lonely. life is way to short at times for anything mediocre. know who you are inside and known that you are worthy of reaching your dreams and that is never to late to start creating the life you have always dreamed of. growing up i learned never to compare myself to others because that's just deadly.
no two souls are the same and you are your own person! never doubt that you are not beautiful and unique and if people cant accept you for you and judge you souly on just your character and not on looks or self entitled reasons then f..k em. you have to put trust into the higher power and your inner teflon that some things are meant to happen and somethings are not and your not in control of everything. let go of whatever in your life right now person or thing that is stealing your happiness. i know its hard but in the end i promise you its worth it. learn to embrace change! embrace life and learn to breathe trust and let go of the bullshit.