When you “lose” the one you love, what does it do to you? i say “lose”, not in the truest sense of loss where one person ceases to exist, but in the sense that you grow apart or you come to a decision, mutual or not, that it is best that you go your separate ways. and what is this loss? it takes maturity and true love to acknowledge that you may be a hindrance to another’s journey, an obstacle on their chosen path. it does not mean that you aren’t a wonderful person, a great lover, an amazing friend. it just means that where paths once converged, hearts must now diverge.
is it ego that convinces is that we need to attach to others? that insatiable desire to be wanted? needed? to be the sole recipient of another’s love and affection?
i have felt it all. i have loved with all my heart and then some. my last break up forced me to acknowledge my own selfishness, my flaws and shortcomings.
but i can still want, with everything that i am, the very best for you, even though we are no longer together. to love another is not just to love them when you are together. it is also loving them even though you are apart.
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