This is not a gossip page nor is it turning into one. this video has simply caught my attention because i feel as if a lot of women such as myself can relate to what nicki is saying. women who are strong minded and posses a certain type of confidence are usually perceived as "unapproachable" by a lot of men. are they intimidated? possibly, who knows! it takes a very secure man to be able to "handle/ deal" with a successful woman, a woman with a high intellect, someone who is constantly on her grind and receives a lot of attention from others. i definitely agree with nicki, she's speaking nothing but facts, but then again that's my personal opinion.
Let’s be honest! there are moments of loneliness every now and then when single but overall, it’s the best time to learn, grow and discover yourself!
first video in the let’s be honest series out on youtube tomorrow! 😊
We had a great first swim class @emlerswimschool today! i was hoping to have pictures for days, but #letsbehonest with twins that’s kind of impossible! i didn’t want to bust out the phone on our first class when we were suppose to be engaged and listening. we will wait for class #2 to #doitforthegram 😂. ok so my decision to expose the kiddos to the water at 5ish weeks was 100% the right decision for us. it made the introduction to #bathtimebabies at #emler seamless. no screams, no tears, just fun!! if you have a school in your area try it out, it’s free with a $30 enrollment fee for the year. #emlerswimschool#swimschool#swimatemler#swimclass#twin#twins#boygirltwins#fraternaltwins#twins#twinsies#momsofmultiples#dadsofinstagram#igtwins#twinning#twinmom#twindad#twinparents
Scrolling through insta stumbling upon this pic you might think “damn what a nice bathtub i wish i could self-care like that w*f does she do. i’m not doing enough. i don’t have enough. i’m not enough.”
whennnnn in reality this is my moms bathtub and i’m living with her because i just broke off my engagement and have to wait for our house to sell to get my own place and i’m in the midst of intense sadness while taking this bath.
seeeeee what i’m saying!?
and btw i’m not saying this for pity lol i’m grateful af that i have a safe and cozy space to stay during this rough transition. buuttttt i’m saying this because pretty pics mean nothinnggg. k!? you’re doing enough and you have enough and you are enough. love you.
You will never change, get better, be happier/healthier, do anything different unless you are ready to make that change. our friends and family can talk and motivate us until they are blue in the face. however until you, yourself, are ready to change, you never will. people can't make us change, only we can change ourselves.
whether that change is physical, mental, spiritual, or financial. we won't ever change until we're ready to. you need to be willing to sacrifice things. you need to be willing to work hard. you need to be willing to say "no" to yourself and to others. you need to be just a little bit selfish. mostly you have to be ready to love yourself and make hard choices (or easy depending on your outlook on life).
don't be afraid to change and make something better of yourself. love yourself. make yourself happy. be a little selfish. but mostly change for you. don't ever change for someone else. change for your health, change for your safety, change for whatever reason, but change for you. dont be afraid to change.