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154 2,216 July 2019
Real love does not turn off like a switch. this is a sign of a insincere, very warped individual. abandoning people like this, wether it is physically leaving, or just emotionally, playing with a person’s feelings is very damaging and traumatizing. this is abusive and it is not your fault. you are dealing with or have delt with a very disordered individual....
239 2,760 March 2019
89 1,568 October 2019
The phrases a narcissist will use to blame shift and gaslight while apologising.
“ i’m sorry for whatever you think i did wrong.”
“ i’m sorry you feel that way.”
“ i’m sorry for what you think i did.”
“ for what it’s worth, i’m sorry.”
“ i’m sorry if you think i said that.”
“ i’m sorry if you think i did that.”
“ i’m sorry you misunderstood me.”
“ i’m sorry you didn’t pay me enough attention.” a narcissist when apologising ( if you’re lucky as most will not.) will always drop a you in with the apology to shift the blame, so we believe it’s our fault they behaved the way they did, and change who we are time and time again to suit them, walking on eggshells, full of self-doubt within our own thoughts, feelings and abilities. -

we are not responsible for their behaviour, that is on them, we are only ever responsible for our own. -

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53 1,740 April 2020
Just like adults don't see what's happening to them, children of a narcissistic parents don't know what's happening, with mental abuse, the child doesn't question what's wrong with their parent, the child often ends up questions what's wrong with themselves.
helping children through, isn’t always easy, validating the child’s feeling, validating they are good enough, allowing them to make their own choices and mistakes, to learn for themselves, being there for them when they need you afterwards, allowing them to own their own emotions, and letting those emotions out, letting them discover the things they love about themselves and about life, teaching them empathy and boundaries, will help their minds as they grow.
we can break family cycles and raise happy, healthy children.
#narcissisticparent #narcissistparents #narcissistmother #narcissisticfather #parentalalienation #parentalalienationawareness #maternalalienation #domesticviolence #domesticviolenceawareness #domesticabuse #domesticabuseawareness #childabuse #childabuseawareness #scapegoat #goldenchild #forgotten #scapegoatchild #forgottenchild #narcissist #narcissists #narcissistic #mentalabuse #mentalabuseawareness #mentalhealth #childrensmentalhealth #emotionalabuse #emotionalhealth
46 1,707 January 2020
As someone who has survived a relationship with a narcissist, it’s probably not news to you that narcissists are jealous of you. or maybe it is a surprise, since their words may say the opposite. narcissists of both kinds, the covert and the overt, can often act like they are superior to everyone else, that they are the most important person in the room. they have a sense of entitlement, they are self-absorbed, they are smug and condescending. you would think that if they were as amazing as they present themselves to be, that they would want everyone around them to be as successful and impressive as they are. like me, you know that this is far from true.⠀

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I’m offering a new session for this popular online masterclass on sunday august 23rd at 2pm eastern standard time.
this class takes place via zoom online video conferencing.
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co-parenting with a pathological person will be even more difficult now that the world has been instructed to #selfquarantine & keep children home from school.
as i’m sure you already know, #narcissists believe that rules & laws don’t apply to them. many of them are even claiming that they are immune to the coronavirus. .
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you can secure your place via the link in my bio or @ https://lifeafternarc.as.me/coparenting101 there are only a limited number of places available — this is to ensure that everyone gets a chance to pose their own questions and receive answers. this class is super popular so it’s first come first served — if you’re not able to secure a ticket for this session look out for an announcement about the next co-parenting with a #narcissist live class at the beginning of next year.
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in this online masterclass, you will learn: *how to protect your child from the fallout of contact with a pathological parent
*how to present your case to a judge
*when to consider returning to court to apply to stop visitation
*how to prevent your child from picking up narcissistic traits from the problem parent
*how to handle communication with the other parent
*how to stop the pathological parent from verbally abusing you
*how to maintain and enforce boundaries with a pathological parent
*how to teach your child emotional intelligence
*how to acknowledge that your ex is #pathological without traumatising your child.
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#coparentingwithanarcissist #coparentingdoneright #narcissisticabuse #parentalalienation #childcustody #empathsofinstagram #narcopath #psychopath #parenting #narcissistfather #narcissistmother #npd #deadbeatparent #custodyissues #childcareissues #highconflictperson
0 50 8 hours ago
دختران مادران خودشیفته برای اشتباه هایی که نکردند هم معذرت خواهی می کنند و دایم در حال معذرت خواهی اند در تلاش برای اینکه از خشم مادر خودشیفته در امان بمانند
#خودشیفته #خودشیفتگی
#اختلال_شخصیت #اختلال_شخصیت_خودشیفته #مادرخودشیفته #مادر_خودشیفته #مادروکودک #مادر_افسرده
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2 20 Yesterday
Around 75% of the survivors i work with 1 to 1 were had at least one parent who was personality-disordered, substance-addicted, or both.
in this live 2 hour masterclass (via zoom) you’ll learn how to rewrite your “blueprint” for interpersonal relationships so that you’ll no longer feel attracted to toxic & #highconflict personality types.
to protect your privacy you can choose to mute your video during the session. & use your first name only, or a nickname.
this is an interactive workshop — meaning you get to ask questions, receive answers & share as much or as little of your personal history as you wish. speak up, or just listen & absorb — it’s entirely up to you.

register via “book now” tab in bio on profile page, or at https://lifeafternarc.as.me/adultchildrenofnarcs

#emotionalabuse #abusesurvivors #traumahealing #traumainformed #overcomingnarcissisticabuse #scapegoatchild #escapegoat #narcissistmother #narcissistfather #walkingoneggshells #highconflictpeople #narcissisticabuse #adultchildrenofnarcissists
0 279 3 days ago
#mothersday
#goodmoms #mommylove#mothersloveisforever#mommyhood#mommylife#momdiaries#motherhoodunplugged#realmotherhood #motherhoodjourney#embraceyourmotherhood#theycallmemama#motherhoodrocks #narcissistmother #sociopathawareness#sociopathsurvivor#npdawareness#emotionalabuseisstillabuse#traumabond#smearcampaign#narcissisticparent#narcissistrecovery#narcissistabuse #gaslightingawareness#narcissistrecovery #lovecannotfindyouwhileyouaredeceivedbylust
0 5 5 days ago
This young man's dad left him and mom she raised him alone by the grace of god. this man became a millionaire and blessed his mom this is the way god works when children get rejected by their parents and their parents usually end up with nothing so people won't treat their children as if they are nothing. god is their real father and will bless the children and curse their parents that didn't raise them.

the moms who love and care about their children are the ones god showed them how to love and care

proverbs 10
10 the proverbs of solomon:

a wise son makes a glad father,
but a foolish son is the grief of his mother.

proverbs 15
20 a wise son makes a father glad,
but a foolish man despises his mother.

proverbs 19
26 he who mistreats his father and chases away his mother
is a son who causes shame and brings reproach.

proverbs 20
20 whoever curses his father or his mother,
his lamp will be put out in deep darkness.

#mothersday
#goodmoms #mommylove#mothersloveisforever#mommyhood#mommylife#momdiaries#motherhoodunplugged#realmotherhood #motherhoodjourney#embraceyourmotherhood#theycallmemama#motherhoodrocks #narcissistmother #sociopathawareness#sociopathsurvivor#npdawareness#emotionalabuseisstillabuse#traumabond#smearcampaign#narcissisticparent#narcissistrecovery#narcissistabuse #gaslightingawareness#narcissistrecovery #lovecannotfindyouwhileyouaredeceivedbylust
1 15 5 days ago
Can you look inside and remember how did they treat you?
maybe...
maybe you have their toxicity and don’t realize it...
i was like them for soooo long...
i was miserable pretending...
are you?
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#wakeup #knockknock #wakeupneothematrixhasyou #wakeup #raisedbynarcissists #narcissisticabuse #narcissistmother #empath #reiki #healer #iamfree #youcannothitmeanymore
0 31 1 weeks ago
I grew up with a narcissistic mother. i was married to a narcissist for almost 20 years. then with another narc for 2 years. here i am almost 40 years old and i just realized this pattern. i'm in awe... i can't believe i didn't catch on sooner, but when this toxic life is the norm we just don't think otherwise. red flags are "home" to us.
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time to heal and grow.. time to teach my children what i now know.
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#redflags #toxicmom #toxicmothers #toxicparents #narcissistabuse #narcissist #narcissistmom #narcissistpersonalitydisorder #narcissistmother #narcknowledge #divorcedwoman #divorcecare #gaslighting #gaslightingawareness #traumarecovery #traumabond #traumabonding #healingjourney #domesticabusesurvivor #domesticabuse #domesticviolence
0 44 2 weeks ago
Has someone ever apologized to you but yet remained the same person prior to the apology? that's called manipulation! some people don't want to change or better yet don't know how. it's easier for them to just apologize to smooth things over and move forward. you teach people how to treat you and this is unacceptable behavior. love yourself more by demanding change or denying their access. happy monday 😊
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1 11 2 weeks ago
Today we asked my mother not to say racist or bigoted things in front of our children. we said we dont expect her to change her beliefs, we only ask that they arent said in front of our kids. my mother said she would not change the things she says around us, even if it means she cant see the kids any more.

tonight, we grieve the new, likely permanent, loss of family members. but tomorrow is a new day, and the support we have found in opening up about our situation has made us feel more loved and cherished than ever.

i'm grateful for my husband, group therapy, my therapist, and the four agreements for giving me the strength and tools necessary to finally put my backbone to use and stand up for myself, my husband, and my children.

#boundaries #narcissist #narcissisticmother #narcissistmother #healing #lgbtfamily #mixedfamily #interracialcouple #journeytowellness #thefouragreements #downwiththanksgiving #longlivefriendsgiving
4 110 2 weeks ago
Reposted from @message.from.beyond here are some ways that modern spirituality denies and also contributes to the collective shadow:

1. “focus only on the positive” (this denies reality and shames those who have legitimate issues that need space and compassion)
2. “good vibes only” (this denies the importance of anything going on around us that is “low vibe” and encourages us to escape into a spiritual dreamworld)
3. “you attracted that situation” (aka. those who get discriminated against due to the color of their skin, sexuality, age, mental/physical ability, etc. “brought it on themselves” – imagine how sociopathic that sounds when you say it to someone who is suffering)
4. “that’s your karma” (this is used as another way of brushing over and dismissing someone’s pain by attributing it to some kind of retributive cosmic force)
5. “you manifest your reality” (this is another way of saying that basically “it’s too bad you’re suffering, but it’s your fault” which is essentially a form of victim-blaming)
6. “everything is an illusion” (on an absolute level that may be true, but we’re also operating from a human level and that needs to be respected, acknowledged, and lived – to say that everything is an illusion is bypassing the importance of facing issues that are happening within ourselves and society)
7. “everything is love” (again, on an absolute level this may be true, but from a human level we need to be careful not to discount the reality of our/other people’s pain – that itself is not love but avoidance)
8 “society is evil/unconscious” (this is a common philosophy held by many spiritual folks who use it as an unconscious excuse, ironically, to close their hearts and ignore the suffering of the world in order to make their lives easier to live)
9. “i’m a lightworker, i don’t ____” (this excuse and belief is used by modern spiritual seekers who believe that shadow work in no way fits into their mission – that it’s all about spreading light and love – however, by denying the shadow either personally and/or collectively, they are paradoxically living in and perpetuating darkness)
10. “spirituality and whatever is going on in society don’t mix” (this definition
1 8 2 weeks ago
In this evening’s dr ramani video, she discusses “can you catch narcissism?”. this is something i have been anxiously concerned about as i take the time to learn about my mum’s condition in depth and analyse what has been normalised in my upbringing. thankfully, dr ramani explained this concept ... when you are being suffocated in the narcissistic abuse, you are in complete survival mode. if you were on a desert island, you wouldn’t be thinking about manners, keeping up appearances, or being a good listener. instead, you are focussed on your next meal, what shelter you can find, and how you’ll get through this next challenge. when you’re stuck in that relationship, it’s so hard to be present for friends and other people, listening and supporting them as the good friend you want to be. you’re not lacking empathy and becoming a narcissist, but rather you’re just stuck in survival mode and all those interpersonal skills are not a top priority right now. interestingly, dr ramani said that when you escape the clutches of your narcissist, healthy practices such as self-care, emotional regulation, and focus on your needs/wants/desires is so foreign to you that you think you are “selfish” and “becoming an entitled narcissist!”. but, these behaviours are 100% needed to be a well-functioning and healthy person. as you distance yourself from the narcissistic, you have the mental and emotional capacity to look outwards and be your authentic self, able to help and be there for the people around you.

😢 i grew up feeling guilty having time to relax (“you’re being so lazy!”), feeling overwhelmed with emotions but not having a way to regulate/manage (“you’re so overly sensitive, you feel everything too deeply, you’ve just got puberty blues”) and being called selfish when i took steps towards the person i wanted to become (“you only ever think of yourself, you’re such a selfish girl, wearing that makes you look cheap”).

🏡 i am so grateful that i now live in a safe home with a husband who encourages me to take ample time to relax, never calls me sensitive but instead listens to my worries, and let’s me pursue whatever fashion trend or dream i’m interested in 👙👠👢👛🕶
3 13 2 weeks ago
Absolutely hilarious 🤣
1 11 2 weeks ago
The last time i felt good in my body was september 2012. i felt beautiful in this photo. i was well-rested, energetic, peaceful, calm, happy, health, zen, stress free and happy w my weight. then i joined a bootcamp to take exercise to the next level and watched my stress level go up, my waistline grow, and i started gaining weight. then cortisol fatigue set in and the stress of more exercising and dieting because i didn't want to gain all that i lost. now we are 8 year past that point and have experienced mom cancer/falls/surgeries/alzheimers, job loss, life loss, trauma revelations, weight gain. but i'm not giving up. healing is in play. i believe in myself and i'm here showing up again, beginning a new, emotional, open space. no more hiding. let's go! #healyourselfwithfood #organiceatz #selflove #narcissistmother
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0 9 3 weeks ago
Needless to say i guess but she, of course, tried to turn the conversation about me picking one of the two dates for school visit at the beginning of the semester. something that she agreed upon and said was a great solution a week ago. now i was told i did wrong by choosing it myself.

#narcissisticabusesurvivor #narcissism #npdawareness #narcissist #narcissisticabuseawareness #narcissisticrecovery #narcsurvivor #narcfree #domesticabuse #domesticabuserecovery #traumabonding #traumabond #infidelity #infidelityrecovery #coparenting #narcissistmother
0 8 3 weeks ago
A narcissistic parent is a parent affected by narcissism or narcissistic personality disorder. typically, narcissistic parents are exclusively and possessively close to their children and are threatened by their children's growing independence. wikipedia
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by the way i do what i want and i am still their golden child... huh... love my mommy and daddy 😫😩😜. unconditional love 😳🤨.. parents love your children unconditionally, let them live and speak their truth so they are happy and well nurtured..fine you can guide them but you can't force your beliefs ..there is a vast difference between controlling them and parenting them ... set them freeeeeee..let them bee...please...heard of conscious parenting? ..go re-search..read books...learn about new parenting methods and let go of the outdated ones, for heavens sake...🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨
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40 238 3 weeks ago
More little nuggets from our garden. having an organic meal and catering business means i eat healthy most of the time, but weight loss is still a struggle for me. i'm starting 'the plan' on monday. have i done it before with success? yes. did the demons throw me off course? yes. demons appear as self doubt, you're not good enough/strong enough/disciplined enough emotional abuse, job loss, criticism and comparisons, clothes not fitting, relationships ending, parent and family illness or loss, injuries, pandemic quarantine anxiety and depression.
so,how do we stay on course and not get throw off by the demons? let's figure it out!

this plan is a great identifier for inflammation response to foods, weight gain, adrenal fatigue, etc. after a lifetime of dieting, overexercising (to the point where i've stressed my system where it stopped working and held on to every ounce of fat).... i am trying again. believing in myself to stay on course and not allow the demons to throw me off. my mom has had cancer and now alzheimers and was small (thin) but full of demons and stress her entire life. i am not repeating this pattern and illness in mine. so the healing journey begins.....wish me luck!#nevergiveuponyourself #narcissistmother #organiceatz #
0 7 3 weeks ago
Found this at the flea market ♥️
#narcissistmother #neverforget #strongnow
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1 9 3 weeks ago
Have you ever wondered how your significant other ends up with that friend who was just a "good friend" during the relationship? 🤔
those are back burner relationships or someone just patiently waiting their turn. toxic people don't spend the time working on themselves after a break up because it was never their fault anyway (whatever) and so they always keep a back seat relationship in the chamber ready for a rebound. if you were that rebound chances are he/she isn't going to change for you.
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#narcissisticabuseawareness #narcissisticabuserecovery #narcissisticparent #narcissistmother #toxicrelationship #toxicabuse #toxicmemes #reboundrelationships
0 3 3 weeks ago
It's true! a narcissist will project their fear onto you and it usually manifests in the form of hate, dislike, anger, control and negative behavior.
how do you deal with this? simple, just practice a little self validation and know beyond a doubt that their fear has nothing to do with you. if you need to distant yourself then do that, don't answer the phone and definitely practice redirecting their attacks and manipulation into something more positive.
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#narcissisticabuseawareness #narcissisticabuserecovery #narcissisticparent #narcissistmother #toxicrelationship #toxicabuse #toxicmemes
4 9 3 weeks ago
The more we know the stronger we can be.
#narcissistmother #difficultmothers #survivinganarcissist
0 2 3 weeks ago
My book💪❤️
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0 0 3 weeks ago
It was a good day for new begginings
#recovering #narcissistmother#nocontact#heartache#itsbetterthisway
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