responsibility is not an act of love or favour. it is what a person ought to do. but love is an act, not just an act but a selfless one. before anyone understands love, he/she must first understand what love stands for.
for instance, a man that took his sick wife to the hospital because she's his wife, didn't exercise any act of love or favour in the real sense. he just performed his duty as a husband (it's his responsibility). though, one may say if he didn't love her he wouldn't have taken her to the hospital in the first place.
however, let's look at the second illustration for more clarification. a man that took his sick wife to the hospital because she "deserves to live" has shown love because with that mentality, he will definitely save another soul relatives or not. duty is a responsibility but love is an act of selflessness. love does not discriminate. it is a gesture we are expected to show to everyone, even to our enemies according to the holy book. (matt.5:44). regret is becoming the end result of many relationships because people often misinterpret s****l feelings as love.
love tolerates, it endures and accommodates. if you stop loving someone because of a mistake, honestly, you were never in love. love forgives and also makes things beautiful. it is your responsibility to shape your partner the way you want him/her to be, if you sincerely love him/her.
however, "if you think you deserve to be forgiven, loved and cherished, your partner also deserves the same". responsibility is what a person ought to do and it is not a favour to the receiver. may god help us amen
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