Wouldn’t be christmas eve without a massive board filled with all our favorite appetizers! i’m feel so incredibly grateful to be surrounded by friends, family and this incredible community! merry christmas and happy holidays! 🎄
4 weeks ago
All we wanna do is dance, eat and play all day long! merry christmas friends! 💃🍩🎄
The world would be a much happier place if we all tried to understand instead of judging, and gave each other the benefit of the doubt instead of assuming the worst… don’t you think?
i hope my children grow up to learn this.🙏💕 it’s funny, as i had messaged someone and she kept ignoring me. i could’t understand why they would wanna be my friend on social media.. then not be “social”. why they’d read a message then ignore me.
my instant reaction was rude.. then i thought.. maybe she didn’t get my message… then i thought maybe i p****d her off.. then i thought maybe she’s busy or her phone died. then i was offended and felt sad that she was ignoring me.
i can’t tell you how much of my energy i wasted on her. heck, i almost unfriend her, until one day i heard back.
turns out she was in rough spot. she was struggling. she wasn’t ready to talk. she was dealing with some things and needs time to figure them out.
long story short... i almost lost a good friend because of my over reacting, assuming, and my own ego.
so friends, today is just a gentle reminder… not everything is about you. 👉👉don’t judge. don’t react. don’t assume the worst, just keep on doing your beautiful thing, and things will work out the way they are always meant to.
people are struggling. people are busy. they may be going through a rough time. they may not want to talk. they may misinterpret your intensions. you have no clue what’s going on in other people’s lives.
be kind to everyone, give everyone the benefit of the doubt for they may be fighting a battle you know nothing about.
have the most beautiful day💕