è la tua ultima occasione, se rinunci non ne avrai altre. pillola azzurra, fine della storia: domani ti sveglierai in camera tua, e crederai a quello che vorrai. pillola rossa, resti nel paese delle meraviglie, e vedrai quant'è profonda la tana del bianconiglio. ti sto offrendo solo la verità, ricordalo. niente di più.
I just have to share how i feel about babies sleeping alone and left to cry.🙈our neighbour had a baby few weeks ago and today when i stepped out on the terrass for a second i heard this newborn screaming from the top of her lungs.🥺she was left to sleep outside in the stroller alone, in the dark and in the cold. i told my older son to stay inside and wrapped my baby in my sweater and put the hat on him and went to knock on the door to tell them that their baby is crying.😇grandma came out and started pushing the stroller trying to shush the baby, baby continued to scream.😭she didn’t even pick her up. my heart just broke into million pieces seeing this and thinking how many babies are growing up the same way.💔babies need to be in constant contact with their mom at least first three months. they need to feel loved, protected, warm and safe. sleeping alone in the dark and cold doesn’t feel safe even for adult. babies need to be able to breastfeed for hunger, for comfort, for sleep, for security etc. they need to be with their mom 24/7, they regulate their breathing and hearth rythm through contact with mom. actually the first year they should be able to be with their mother and even beyond that if possible. this is not just some parenting style, this is a biological need for human babies. please don’t leave your babies to cry. please don’t brake them by sleep training them. please just carry them, rock them, cuddle them, cosleep with them. until they feel safe enough to separate and be independent and trust me that time comes when they are ready, we just have to trust them and be patient.☺️please lets leave these old parenting ways in the past and parent with our hearts, with compassion and love.❤️there is a reason it doesn’t feel good or right. momma bears, always listen to your instincts and your hearts.