A minutes worth of crazy with these girls 🌈😝🌈 there’s laughter, moaning, making friends. and so it goes on.
i remember my first concern, aside from having a risky multiple pregnancy, was for my girls and not being able to give them the same 1-1 time that felix had experienced. then one day when they were newly home and began to smile, i was sharing a moment with bertie. she was smiling away and i heard more contented little giggles. i looked around me and it was etta and amelie beaming at me and sharing the fun with their sister. in that moment my worries melted away. i realised that i couldn’t give them the same experience as felix, but i’d given them the beautiful gift of each other. their experience of growing up will be different to a singleton, it being different doesn’t mean it’s less than, just different..
i think this applies to lots of scenarios, do you? just because something happens in a different way to that we may have planned or initially aimed for, it doesn’t mean its not perfect? it’s a different perfect - it’s our perfect? this is definitely relevant to @daddy_to_triplets_and_bro and i with regards to infertility - i didn’t have children for years. so i didn’t get what i wanted when i planned to get it. my family came at a different time and in a different way to how i planned it, but my goodness it’s our perfect 🌈💖🌈 .
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