there is nothing wrong with carrying yourself like a lady. my mommy always told me that "no one will respect you if you don't respect yourself. there is nothing wrong with having standards!" so don't be afraid to go against what's popular. it's ok not to show your a*s (sorry), but it is. it's still in style to carry yourself as sexy lady with standards and brains. you set the standards for how the world see you. klassy never goes out of style.
and like my favorite tv personality @toddchrisley says "class, not ass!"