„change the way you look at things and the things you look at change.“
it allows us to take a step back and remind ourselves that #perception is very subjective.
we often think that how we view life is how life is but that’s just our perception of it.
if we are flexible and open in how we view our life, the world and others we are open to magnificent things unfolding for us. 😌
#change#the#way#you#look#at#things "ändere die art und weise, wie du dinge betrachtest und die dinge, die du betrachtest, ändern sich."
es erlaubt uns, einen schritt zurückzutreten und uns daran zu erinnern, dass die #wahrnehmung sehr subjektiv ist.
wir denken oft, dass wie wir das leben sehen, das leben ist - aber das ist nur unsere eigene wahrnehmung davon.
wenn wir flexibel und offen sind, wie wir unser leben, die welt und andere betrachten, sind wir offen für großartige dinge - dinge die sich für uns entfalten. 🙌🏼
12 hours ago
People are so “interesting"
this morning i awoke to a very “interesting” email from a person who was a part of my past.
in the email the person felt the need to email me in regards to my father’s day post, in which they attempted to “correct me on the memories of my past and recommend instead that i honor other people besides my father for my successes”. yes, in my father’s day post, the one about my father.
in total transparency, i am not shocked, this is not the first email they have sent me and sadly, it most likely won’t be the last.
there was a time when this email would have enraged me, a time when it would have ruined my day, but that was when i was emotionally anchored to that part of my life and the people in that part of my life, but today in my unanchored state, i know who i am and i am very clear on my memories and my choices. i literally feel nothing besides gratitude for this ’interesting” email as it is the perfect reminder to wake up every morning and choose you.
you get to choose…
you get to choose who is in your life, who you interact with and who you communicate with.
you get to choose what memories you hold onto and what memories you choose to release.
you get to decide who and what you give emotion to and when.
you get to decide how you respond and when you respond.
this is your life.
and most importantly you have to make the choice to put yourself first, even if it is uncomfortable for other people or because they feel they should come first, because you are your priority.
you cannot show up for other people in your life if you are not showing up for you.
no one, not anyone…
can choose your memories for you.
can decide who you will honor.
can decide how you should spend your life, money or energy.
can tell you who or what you should love.
it’s all up to you, you get to choose.
so, next time someone decides to tell you what they think you should have done or how you should have handled it or what they remember about your past…decide if you want to take it on and if it doesn’t feel like it then don’t. just chalk it up as an “interesting” perspective, be grateful for the experience... (cont in comments👇)
As pessoas que são mais julgadas geralmente são as mais corajosas, elas não se limitam a imposições da sociedade e se negam empurrar uma situação com a barriga! elas lutam por aquilo que acreditam mas tem a consciência de quando é o momento de mudar o prumo. elas encaram o real fato que a vida é uma só e que ser irreverente as vezes faz parte de manter uma mente saudável, compreendem que rigidez não é foco muito menos que maturidade é amargura! e os que julgam o que são? apenas os que julgam!